OK, the answer is.... We have changed agencies. Just like Susan and Randy however, we were much farther along than they were. We lost a considerable amount of money and time. But we feel that in the long run it will be worth it. Our old agency was not accredited and had no idea when it was going to happen. So we could either be patient (which I am NOT) and wait it out, or make a change. So we made the change.
We are basically having to start over but luckily I'm organized so I have a lot of the docs already.
We'll keep you up to date on where our kiddos will come from, etc.
Happy Halloween everyone! I hope this is the last childless Halloween for us!